I just recorded a podcast with Elizabeth Garvish, founder of Garvish Immigration Law Group, LLC.
Her story reminded me how much leadership is about trusting people we can’t always see and choosing what Elizabeth calls “love.” In practice, that means leading with empathy, trust, and courage, even when leading from afar.
Elizabeth runs a fully distributed team with lawyers and staff across the United States, Spain, Argentina, Colombia, and Honduras.
Her goal is simple yet powerful: to build the happiest law firm in America.
My top three takeaways:
1️⃣ Love as a leadership system
Elizabeth doesn’t lead with rules; she leads with trust. Her team works globally, across time zones and cultures, connected not by oversight but by shared values.
2️⃣ Flexibility as a gift, especially for working mothers
Her firm is built around women, many of them mothers, who can choose how and where they work. She proved that flexibility doesn’t have to reduce performance.
3️⃣ Structure makes freedom possible
Behind the idea of “love” is solid structure: EOS meetings, SOPs in Trainual, and remote systems that make clarity the default. It’s a vivid reminder that this is how culture scales beyond the office.
For me, this conversation reinforced that remote leadership requires a different set of skills, approaches, and practices—and that it absolutely works. When trust, support, and clarity are part of the system, teams don’t just function remotely; they thrive.
Grateful to Elizabeth for sharing her vision of what leading with love looks like in the real world.
Full episode coming soon. 💫
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The Real Burnout: Why Leadership Isn’t About Hardening Your Heart
I cried the first time I had to fire someone. I felt it was my fault. As a founder, I’ve always believed we don’t just hire people, we invite them into our vision. We hope they’ll care as much as we do. And when they don’t, or when it doesn’t work, it feels like a personal failure.
For a long time, I kept people too long because I wanted to avoid admitting that failure. Instead, I twisted myself trying to make things work that clearly weren’t. I thought being a “good leader” meant being endlessly patient.
It took me years to understand that being a good leader actually means telling the truth kindly, clearly, and as soon as things become clear.
That’s why I believe most of us don’t burn out from overworking. We burn out from emotional entanglement, from holding the entire relationship on our shoulders, without anyone saying, “Hey, this isn’t working and here’s why.”
It took me years to learn that leadership isn’t about hardening your heart. It’s about keeping it open and acting anyway.
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Why Teams Still Hesitate
Why Teams Still Hesitate
Most leadership tension comes from one thing people rarely admit.
Unfinished decisions.
Not bad decisions.
Not wrong decisions.
Decisions that were never fully made or clearly communicated.
You see it when priorities keep shifting.
When people ask the same questions in different meetings.
When execution feels hesitant instead of decisive.
What’s happening underneath is uncertainty.
Teams can handle change.
They can handle bad news.
They can even handle tough goals.
What they struggle with is ambiguity that lingers.
Strong leaders close loops.
They say
This is the decision.
This is why we made it.
This is what it means for you.
This is what we are not doing right now.
That clarity creates relief.
People stop second guessing.
They stop waiting for permission.
They move with confidence because the ground feels solid again.
Leadership is not about keeping options open forever.
It is about knowing when it is time to choose and helping others move forward with you.
If your team feels stuck, look for the open loops.
They are usually where the energy is leaking.
Because the strongest teams are not the ones with the smartest answers.
They are the ones asking the best questions together.
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