Have we turned hiring into Tinder?
Swipe. Match. Delete.
Hiring has started to look more and more like a high-churn dating game. Job platforms have made applying so easy that an employer can be swamped with hundreds of applications for a single role. A few get shortlisted, some get invited to interviews, and one gets chosen. The others—the ones who made it all the way to final rounds—receive a polite rejection. And that’s the end of the short romance. No follow-up. No “let’s stay in touch.”
A few months later, the new hire doesn’t work out—or another similar role needs to be filled. Suddenly the founder is scrambling: “Do you know anyone good? I need to rehire, fast.” And just like that, they’re back to hiring Tinder. Starting from scratch. Swipe. Match. Delete. Ignoring all the candidates from the last hiring round.
I believe most companies don’t have a hiring problem—they have a relationship problem. Hiring isn’t a one-off transaction. It’s a system of trust that grows over time, if it’s nurtured. It’s about keeping the door open, even when the role is already filled.
But if we treat candidates like one-time bets, it’s no wonder that hiring always feels like a cold start—with too many frogs to kiss before we get lucky (or not). The best founders I see have a relationship management system. Sometimes it’s as simple as adding every applicant on LinkedIn so that, when a new role opens up, previous candidates see it right away. That way, they keep their pipeline warm.
Great talent isn’t something we find at the push of a button. It’s something we build and foster long before we even know we need it.
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The Best Lessons Don’t Come From Books, They Come From People
The best lessons don’t come from books. Sometimes, they come from a night at Coldplay with a friend.
Last week, I met up with Dan Baker from Valatam in East London, just before the Coldplay concert. Technically, Dan is a competitor, he runs two outsourcing agencies. Most people would hold back in that situation. I don’t.
Why? Because I met Dan through EO, the Entrepreneurs’ Organization. And in EO, I learned that even when we’re in the same industry, we don’t compete with each other. The only real competition is with ourselves.
To grow my business, I need to grow myself not fear what competitors are doing. That’s why every time Dan and I meet, we talk openly. And I walk away with ideas, feedback, and perspectives you can only get from someone who’s walked the same road.
I’m grateful for friends who prove that you can cheer each other on, learn from each other, and still win in business.
P.S.: The Coldplay concert made a memory. But peer learning makes change.
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What Travel Taught Me About My Business
What Travel Taught Me About My Business
I learned more about my business while flying to Panama than I do on most workdays.
Not from dashboards.
Not from meetings.
But from stepping away and watching what happened next.
One of the quiet measures of a healthy business is what happens when the founder steps away.
Not the highlight reel.
Not the revenue numbers.
But whether the wheels keep turning without constant intervention.
I was in Panama recently, and stepping away made this impossible to ignore. Travel has a way of revealing the truth. When you unplug, gaps show up quickly. Decisions stall. Questions pile up. Or… everything keeps moving.
The difference is rarely talent.
It’s structure.
Strong teams don’t need to be micromanaged. They need clarity, trust, and systems that allow good decisions to happen without waiting for permission.
Building that kind of business takes intention.
You design for absence, not heroics.
Because freedom isn’t something you take once the business is “done.”
It’s something you build into the model from the start.
If your business can’t run without you, that’s not a leadership failure.
It’s simply a signal.
And signals are useful, if you’re willing to listen.
