The best lessons don’t come from books. Sometimes, they come from a night at Coldplay with a friend.

Last week, I met up with Dan Baker from Valatam in East London, just before the Coldplay concert. Technically, Dan is a competitor, he runs two outsourcing agencies. Most people would hold back in that situation. I don’t.

Why? Because I met Dan through EO, the Entrepreneurs’ Organization. And in EO, I learned that even when we’re in the same industry, we don’t compete with each other. The only real competition is with ourselves.

To grow my business, I need to grow myself not fear what competitors are doing. That’s why every time Dan and I meet, we talk openly. And I walk away with ideas, feedback, and perspectives you can only get from someone who’s walked the same road.

I’m grateful for friends who prove that you can cheer each other on, learn from each other, and still win in business.

P.S.: The Coldplay concert made a memory. But peer learning makes change.